Monday, July 22, 2019

New growth from old ways


Recently on a walk at Earth Sanctuary, I was noticing the many different nurse logs and old stumps from which new growth was coming.  This one in particular drew my attention because of the way the new growth has split the old stump.  I started thinking about other situations in which the new grows from the old.  Must the church (local or universal) split in some way for something new to emerge?  I don’t mean split like it has many times over the centuries into new denominations.  Or for a  church to start with a portion of an old one.  The new plants emerge from the decay of the old stump, pushing their way through the old one, pushing parts of it away.  In the church (and many other human institutions), we are so inclined to fight change, to keep doing things the way we always have.  We resist having old ways pushed aside to make room for new possibilities, new seeds of growth.  Yet, if growth is to happen, old ways need to give way – to split away.  It’s actually a healthy way of growth.



I wonder what the new growth is in myself, as I look at the idea of retirement and of moving to a new community?  And what is it that needs to give way in order for that new growth to happen?  What is the new growth in you – what needs to split away for that new growth to happen?  I think this is how resurrection happens.  Resurrection happens when we allow the Holy Spirit to blow through us and change us, push us to allow death of the old and birth of the new.  



Ritual often helps us to allow that splitting away to happen - ritual that honors and celebrates what has been, while acknowledging the need for the new in order for life to continue.  How will you celebrate that which you need to release in order to grow in your life?





Friday, July 5, 2019

Intentional Living




On June 13th, 2019, a good friend left this life. She is now without pain, free of a body that was no longer functioning as it should.  We gave her a wonderful celebration on the 29th of June.  So many wonderful words were spoken; beautiful music; stories told.  We also had the opportunity to celebrate with her before she died – to share stories with her and sing together.  As I reflect on these last few months with her, I wonder if I’m doing that enough with people I love.  How often are we walking through life, side by side, but not really paying attention to those we love?  Diane, you have left me with a desire to live more intentionally; to spend less time in constant motion and doing; to just be with others and to be with myself. 

I’ve been reflecting for over a year now about doors and bridges.  My experiences with Diane have led me to a bridge into a new way of life.  How I live this out is yet to be seen.  I wonder though, how are you being called to live more intentionally?  Our culture demands constant action and reaction.  Yes, sometimes we need to react and/or take action.  Perhaps though we can slow down and live in a way that calls us into intentional relationship, into paying attention to one another.  Where or how are you being called to live differently?  In Mary Oliver's well known poem, Summer Day, she asks, and I think Diane asks us, What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?